Principle of Ownership掌有權原則 Yielding rights退讓權利 Principle of Ownership掌有權原則 Anger 憤怒 James 雅各書 1:20 for man's anger does not bring about the righteous life that God desires. 因為人的憤怒不能成就神的義。 Eph. 以弗所書 4:31 Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. 你們要除掉一切苦毒、暴怒、憤怒、喧嚷、毀謗，以及一切的惡毒； Prov. 箴言 22:24-25 Do not make friends with a hot-tempered man, do not associate with one easily angered, or you may learn his ways and get yourself ensnared. 好生氣的人、不可與他結交．暴怒的人、不可與他來往．恐怕你效法他的行為、自己就陷在網羅裡。

Principle of Ownership掌有權原則 Yielding rights退讓權利 Principle of Ownership掌有權原則 Recall the last time you get angry 回想你上次的生氣 Who, when, what, why 與誰，什麼時候，怎麼生氣，為什麼

Principle of Ownership掌有權原則 Yielding rights退讓權利 Principle of Ownership掌有權原則 Rights and expectation 權利和期望 What are some of our assumed rights 我們有什麼假設的權利? Psalms 詩篇 62:1,5 ... My soul finds rest in God alone; my salvation comes from him… Find rest, O my soul, in God alone; my hope comes from him. 神阿、錫安的人、都等候讚美你、所許的願、也要向你償還。… 拯救我們的　神阿、你必以威嚴秉公義應允我們．你本是一切地極、和海上遠處的人所倚靠的。

Principle of Ownership掌有權原則 Yielding rights退讓權利 Principle of Ownership掌有權原則 Examples of Christ 基督的例子 1. He yielded His right to wealth 祂放棄富有的權利 Phil. 腓利比書 2:5-6 Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus: Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be grasped, but made himself nothing, … 你們應當有這樣的意念，這也是基督耶穌的意念。雖然他就是神本體的存在，卻不把與神同等看做是一件要強抓不放的事，

Principle of Ownership掌有權原則 Yielding rights退讓權利 Principle of Ownership掌有權原則 Examples of Christ 基督的例子 2. He yielded His right to good reputation 祂放棄好名聲的權利 Jn. 約翰福音 1:46 “Nazareth! Can anything good come from there?” Nathanael asked. “Come and see,” said Philip. 拿旦業對他說：「拿撒勒還能出什麼好的嗎？」腓力說：「你來看吧！」

Principle of Ownership掌有權原則 Yielding rights退讓權利 Principle of Ownership掌有權原則 Examples of Christ 基督的例子 3. He yielded His right to be served 祂放棄祂被服侍的權利 Jn. 13:3,5 約翰福音 Jesus knew that the Father had put all things under his power, and that he had come from God and was returning to God; … After that, he poured water into a basin and began to wash his disciples' feet, drying them with the towel that was wrapped around him. 耶穌知道父把一切交在自己手裡，並且知道自己是從神那裡來，又要回到神那裡去。… 然後把水倒進盆裡，開始洗門徒們的腳，又用束在腰上的布巾擦乾。

Principle of Ownership掌有權原則 Yielding rights退讓權利 Principle of Ownership掌有權原則 Examples of Christ 基督的例子 4. He yielded His right to physical comfort 祂放棄生活舒適的權利 Mark 1:32-33, 35 That evening after sunset the people brought to Jesus all the sick and demon-possessed. The whole town gathered at the door, ... Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where he prayed. 到了傍晚，日落的時候，人們帶著所有患病的、有鬼魔附身的，到耶穌那裡去。全城的人都聚集在門前。… 大清早，天還沒亮，耶穌就起來，走出去，到一個荒僻的地方，在那裡禱告。

Principle of Ownership掌有權原則 Yielding rights退讓權利 Principle of Ownership掌有權原則 Examples of Christ 基督的例子 5. He yielded His right to make his own decision 祂放棄自己作決定的權利 At 12 years old 在12歲時 Mt. 26:39 Going a little farther, he fell with his face to the ground and prayed, "My Father, if it is possible, may this cup be taken from me. Yet not as I will, but as you will." 耶穌稍往前走，把臉伏在地上禱告說：「我父啊，如果有可能，讓這杯離開我吧！但不要照我的意願，而要照你的意願。」

Principle of Ownership掌有權原則 Yielding rights退讓權利 Principle of Ownership掌有權原則 Source of irritation 刺激的根源 (hot button) Source of irritation are frustration-producing agents over which you have little or no control.刺激的根源就是產生你不能或不太能控制惱怒的媒介

Principle of Ownership掌有權原則 Yielding rights退讓權利 Principle of Ownership掌有權原則 Source of irritation 刺激的根源 (hot button) Incorrect responses 不對的反應 Defend self 為自己辯護 Blame other 責怪別人 Hold it in 悶在心裡 Correct responses 正確的反應 Thank God for it 為那感謝神 Determine if you cause it 鑒定是否因你而導致 Develop character through it 因以培養品格

Principle of Ownership掌有權原則 Yielding rights退讓權利 Principle of Ownership掌有權原則 Scope of yielding rights 退讓權利的範圍 Self 自我 - Mark 馬可福音 14:36 "Abba, Father," he said, "everything is possible for you. Take this cup from me. Yet not what I will, but what you will." 他說：「阿爸！父啊！在你，沒有不可能的事，請把這杯從我這裡拿走吧！但不要照我的意願，而要照你的意願。」 Dating 交友 - Psalms 詩篇 73:25 Whom have I in heaven but you? And earth has nothing I desire besides you.  除你以外、在天上我有誰呢．除你以外、在地上我也沒有所愛慕的。 

Principle of Ownership掌有權原則 Yielding rights退讓權利 Principle of Ownership掌有權原則 Scope of yielding rights 退讓權利的範圍 Clothes 衣著 - I Peter 彼得前書 3:3-4 Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God‘s sight. 你們的美麗之處不應該是外在的，如編頭髮、戴金飾、穿華服，而應該是心裡面內在的人，帶著不朽壞的品性，出於謙和、安靜的靈；這在神面前是極其貴重的。

Principle of Ownership掌有權原則 Yielding rights退讓權利 Principle of Ownership掌有權原則 Scope of yielding rights 退讓權利的範圍 Money 錢財 - Colossians 歌羅西書 3:2 Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things. 你們要思想上面的事，不要思想地上的事， Knowledge 知識 – I Cor 歌林多前書 8:1 … Knowledge puffs up, but love builds up. … 知識使人自我膨脹，但是愛能造就人。

Principle of Ownership掌有權原則 Yielding rights退讓權利 Principle of Ownership掌有權原則 Scope of yielding rights 退讓權利的範圍 Friends 朋友 - Matthew 馬太福音 10:40 "He who receives you receives me, and he who receives me receives the one who sent me. 「接受你們的，就是接受我；接受我的，就是接受差派我來的那一位。 Music 音樂 - II Corinthians 歌林多後書 10:5 We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ. 拆毀所有為抵擋神的知識而樹立起來的高牆；又虜獲各樣的心意，達到屬基督的順從；

Principle of Ownership掌有權原則 Yielding rights退讓權利 Principle of Ownership掌有權原則 Scope of yielding rights 退讓權利的範圍 Future 未來 - Matthew 馬太福音 6:33 But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. 所以你們應當先尋求神的國和神的義，這一切都將加給你們了。 Health 健康 - II Corinthians 歌林多後書 12:9 But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ‘s power may rest on me. 但他對我說：「我的恩典是夠你用的，因為我的大能在軟弱中得以完全。」因此，我反而極其樂意地誇耀我的那些軟弱，好讓基督的能力遮蓋在我身上。

Principle of Ownership掌有權原則 Yielding rights退讓權利 Principle of Ownership掌有權原則 Scope of yielding rights 退讓權利的範圍 Reputation 名譽 – Phil 腓利比書 3:7 But whatever was to my profit I now consider loss for the sake of Christ. 然而，以前對我有益的事，現在因基督的緣故，我已經把這些事看做是損失。 Schedule 日程表 - Matthew 馬太福音 23:11 The greatest among you will be your servant. 你們當中誰更大，誰就該做你們的僕人， Activities 活動 - I Corinthians 歌林多前書 10:31 So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God. 因此，你們無論或吃、或喝、或做什麼，一切都要為神的榮耀而做。