Breaking Free from the Cocoon of Bitterness

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1 Breaking Free from the Cocoon of Bitterness
突破苦毒之繭 Breaking Free from the Cocoon of Bitterness

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4 又要谨慎，恐怕有人失了神的恩。恐怕有毒根生出来扰乱你们，因此叫众人沾染污秽。
See to it that no one misses the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many. –希伯来书 Hebrews 12:15

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6 所以你们祷告，要这样说，我们在天上的父，愿人都尊你的名为圣。 10 愿你的国降临，愿你的旨意行在地上，如同行在天上。 11 我们日用的饮食，今日赐给我们。 12 免我们的债，如同我们免了人的债。 13 不叫我们遇见试探，救我们脱离凶恶，（或作脱离恶者）因为国度，权柄，荣耀，全是你的，直到永远，阿们。（有古卷无因为至阿们等字） "This, then, is how you should pray: " 'Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name, 10 your kingdom come, your will be done on earth as it is in heaven. 11 Give us today our daily bread. 12 Forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors. 13 And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one. '. –马太福音 Matthew 6:9-11

7 过了一年，到列王出战的时候，大卫又差派约押，率领臣仆和以色列众人出战。他们就打败亚扪人，围攻拉巴。大卫仍住在耶路撒冷。 2 一日，太阳平西，大卫从床上起来，在王宫的平顶上游行，看见一个妇人沐浴，容貌甚美， 3 大卫就差人打听那妇人是谁。有人说，她是以连的女儿，赫人乌利亚的妻拔示巴。 4 大卫差人去，将妇人接来。那时她的月经才得洁净。她来了，大卫与她同房，她就回家去了。 5 于是她怀了孕，打发人去告诉大卫说，我怀了孕。 In the spring, at the time when kings go off to war, David sent Joab out with the king's men and the whole Israelite army. They destroyed the Ammonites and besieged Rabbah. But David remained in Jerusalem. 2 One evening David got up from his bed and walked around on the roof of the palace. From the roof he saw a woman bathing. The woman was very beautiful, 3 and David sent someone to find out about her. The man said, "Isn't this Bathsheba, the daughter of Eliam and the wife of Uriah the Hittite?" 4 Then David sent messengers to get her. She came to him, and he slept with her. (She had purified herself from her uncleanness.) Then she went back home. 5 The woman conceived and sent word to David, saying, "I am pregnant.“ -撒母耳记下 2 Samuel 11:1-5

8 拿单对大卫说，你就是那人。耶和华以色列的神如此说，我膏你作以色列的王，救你脱离扫罗的手。 8 我将你主人的家业赐给你，将你主人的妻交在你怀里，又将以色列和犹大家赐给你。你若还以为不足，我早就加倍地赐给你。 9 你为什么藐视耶和华的命令，行他眼中看为恶的事呢？你借亚扪人的刀杀害赫人乌利亚，又娶了他的妻为妻。 10 你既藐视我，娶了赫人乌利亚的妻为妻，所以刀剑必永不离开你的家。 11 耶和华如此说，我必从你家中兴起祸患攻击你。我必在你眼前把你的妃嫔赐给别人，他在日光之下就与她们同寝。 12 你在暗中行这事，我却要在以色列众人面前，日光之下，报应你。 Then Nathan said to David, "You are the man! This is what the LORD, the God of Israel, says: 'I anointed you king over Israel, and I delivered you from the hand of Saul. 8 I gave your master's house to you, and your master's wives into your arms. I gave you the house of Israel and Judah. And if all this had been too little, I would have given you even more. 9 Why did you despise the word of the LORD by doing what is evil in his eyes? You struck down Uriah the Hittite with the sword and took his wife to be your own. You killed him with the sword of the Ammonites. 10 Now, therefore, the sword will never depart from your house, because you despised me and took the wife of Uriah the Hittite to be your own.' 11 "This is what the LORD says: 'Out of your own household I am going to bring calamity upon you. Before your very eyes I will take your wives and give them to one who is close to you, and he will lie with your wives in broad daylight. 12 You did it in secret, but I will do this thing in broad daylight before all Israel.' “ -撒母耳记下 2 Samuel 12:7-12

9 押沙龙和以色列众人来到耶路撒冷。亚希多弗也与他同来。
Meanwhile, Absalom and all the men of Israel came to Jerusalem, and Ahithophel was with him.-撒母耳记下 2 Samuel 16:15 押沙龙献祭的时候，打发人去将大卫的谋士，基罗人亚希多弗从他本城请了来。于是叛逆的势派甚大。因为随从押沙龙的人民，日渐增多。 While Absalom was offering sacrifices, he also sent for Ahithophel the Gilonite, David‘s counselor, to come from Giloh, his hometown. And so the conspiracy gained strength, and Absalom’s following kept on increasing. –撒母耳记下 2 Samuel 15:12 大卫就差人打听那妇人是谁。有人说，她是以连的女儿，赫人乌利亚的妻拔示巴。David sent someone to find out about her. The man said, “Isn‘t this Bathsheba, the daughter of Eliam and the wife of Uriah the Hittite?“ -撒母耳记下 2 Samuel 11:3 玛迦人亚哈拜的儿子以利法列，基罗人亚希多弗的儿子以连， 35 迦密人希斯莱，亚巴人帕莱， 36 琐巴人拿单的儿子以甲，迦得人巴尼， 37 亚扪人洗勒，比录人拿哈莱，是给洗鲁雅的儿子约押拿兵器的， 38 以帖人以拉，以帖人迦立， 39 赫人乌利亚，共有三十七人。Eliphelet son of Ahasbai the Maacathite, Eliam son of Ahithophel the Gilonite, 35 Hezro the Carmelite, Paarai the Arbite, 36 Igal son of Nathan from Zobah, the son of Hagri, 37 Zelek the Ammonite, Naharai the Beerothite, the armor-bearer of Joab son of Zeruiah, 38 Ira the Ithrite, Gareb the Ithrite 39 and Uriah the Hittite. There were thirty-seven in all. -撒母耳记下 2 Samuel 23:34-39

10 押沙龙对亚希多弗说，你们出个主意，我们怎样行才好。 21 亚希多弗对押沙龙说，你父所留下看守宫殿的妃嫔，你可以与她们亲近。以色列众人听见你父亲憎恶你，凡归顺你人的手就更坚强。 22 于是人为押沙龙在宫殿的平顶上支搭帐棚。押沙龙在以色列众人眼前，与他父的妃嫔亲近。 23 那时亚希多弗所出的主意好像人问神的话一样。他昔日给大卫，今日给押沙龙所出的主意，都是这样。 17:1 亚希多弗又对押沙龙说，求你准我挑选一万二千人，今夜我就起身追赶大卫， 2 趁他疲乏手软，我忽然追上他，使他惊惶。跟随他的民必都逃跑，我就单杀王一人， 3 使众民都归顺你。你所寻找的人既然死了，众民就如已经归顺你。这样，也都平安无事了。 Absalom said to Ahithophel, "Give us your advice. What should we do?" 21 Ahithophel answered, "Lie with your father's concubines whom he left to take care of the palace. Then all Israel will hear that you have made yourself a stench in your father's nostrils, and the hands of everyone with you will be strengthened." 22 So they pitched a tent for Absalom on the roof, and he lay with his father's concubines in the sight of all Israel. 23 Now in those days the advice Ahithophel gave was like that of one who inquires of God. That was how both David and Absalom regarded all of Ahithophel's advice. 17:1 Ahithophel said to Absalom, "I would choose twelve thousand men and set out tonight in pursuit of David. 2 I would attack him while he is weary and weak. I would strike him with terror, and then all the people with him will flee. I would strike down only the king 3 and bring all the people back to you. The death of the man you seek will mean the return of all; all the people will be unharmed.“ - -撒母耳记下 2 Samuel 16:20 – 17:3

11 亚希多弗见不依从他的计谋，就备上驴，归回本城。到了家，留下遗言，便吊死了，葬在他父亲的坟墓里。
When Ahithophel saw that his advice had not been followed, he saddled his donkey and set out for his house in his hometown. He put his house in order and then hanged himself. So he died and was buried in his father's tomb. -撒母耳记下 2 Samuel 17:23

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13 （大卫与拔示巴同室以后，先知拿单来见他。他作这诗，交与伶长。）神阿，求你按你的慈爱怜恤我，按你丰盛的慈悲涂抹我的过犯。 2 求你将我的罪孽洗除净尽，并洁除我的罪。 3 因为我知道我的过犯，我的罪常在我面前。 4 我向你犯罪，惟独得罪了你，在你眼前行了这恶，以致你责备我的时候，显为公义。判断我的时候，显为清正。 5 我是在罪孽里生的。在我母亲怀胎的时候，就有了罪。 6 你所喜爱的，是内里诚实。你在我隐密处，必使我得智慧。 7 求你用牛膝草洁净我，我就干净，求你洗涤我，我就比雪更白。 8 求你使我得听欢喜快乐的声音，使你所压伤的骨头，可以踊跃。 9 求你掩面不看我的罪，涂抹我一切的罪孽。 For the director of music. A psalm of David. When the prophet Nathan came to him after David had committed adultery with Bathsheba. Have mercy on me, O God, according to your unfailing love; according to your great compassion blot out my transgressions. 2 Wash away all my iniquity and cleanse me from my sin. 3 For I know my transgressions, and my sin is always before me. 4 Against you, you only, have I sinned and done what is evil in your sight, so that you are proved right when you speak and justified when you judge. 5 Surely I was sinful at birth, sinful from the time my mother conceived me. 6 Surely you desire truth in the inner parts; you teach me wisdom in the inmost place. 7 Cleanse me with hyssop, and I will be clean; wash me, and I will be whiter than snow. 8 Let me hear joy and gladness; let the bones you have crushed rejoice. 9 Hide your face from my sins and blot out all my iniquity. -诗篇Psalm 51:109

14 洗鲁雅的儿子亚比筛对王说，这死狗岂可咒骂我主我王呢？求你容我过去，割下他的头来。 10 王说，洗鲁雅的儿子，我与你们有何关涉呢？他咒骂是因耶和华吩咐他说，你要咒骂大卫。如此，谁敢说你为什么这样行呢？ 11 大卫又对亚比筛和众臣仆说，我亲生的儿子尚且寻索我的性命，何况这便雅悯人呢？由他咒骂吧。因为这是耶和华吩咐他的。 12 或者耶和华见我遭难，为我今日被这人咒骂，就施恩与我。 13 于是大卫和跟随他的人往前行走。示每在大卫对面山坡，一面行走一面咒骂，又拿石头砍他，拿土扬他。 Then Abishai son of Zeruiah said to the king, "Why should this dead dog curse my lord the king? Let me go over and cut off his head." 10 But the king said, "What do you and I have in common, you sons of Zeruiah? If he is cursing because the LORD said to him, 'Curse David,' who can ask, 'Why do you do this?' " 11 David then said to Abishai and all his officials, "My son, who is of my own flesh, is trying to take my life. How much more, then, this Benjamite! Leave him alone; let him curse, for the LORD has told him to. 12 It may be that the LORD will see my distress and repay me with good for the cursing I am receiving today." 13 So David and his men continued along the road while Shimei was going along the hillside opposite him, cursing as he went and throwing stones at him and showering him with dirt. -撒母耳记下 2 Samuel 16:9-13

15 有人告诉大卫说，亚希多弗也在叛党之中，随从押沙龙。大卫祷告说，耶和华阿，求你使亚希多弗的计谋变为愚拙。
Now David had been told, "Ahithophel is among the conspirators with Absalom." So David prayed, "O LORD, turn Ahithophel's counsel into foolishness.". -撒母耳记下 2 Samuel 15:13

16 亲爱的弟兄，不要自己伸冤，宁可让步，听凭主怒。（或作让人发怒）因为经上记着，主说，伸冤在我。我必报应。 20 所以，你的仇敌若饿了，就给他吃。若渴了，就给他喝。因为你这样行，就是把炭火堆在他的头上。 21 你不可为恶所胜，反要以善胜恶。 Do not take revenge, my friends, but leave room for God's wrath, for it is written: "It is mine to avenge; I will repay," says the Lord. 20 On the contrary: "If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head." 21 Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good. -罗马书 Romans 12:19-21

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18 你们要追求与众人和睦，并要追求圣洁。非圣洁没有人能见主。 15 又要谨慎，恐怕有人失了神的恩。恐怕有毒根生出来扰乱你们，因此叫众人沾染污秽。
Make every effort to live in peace with all men and to be holy; without holiness no one will see the Lord. 15 See to it that no one misses the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many. –希伯来书 Hebrews 12:14-15

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20 我将一生托付于主的手中 刚来美国的第一天，我就被老公拉着一起随陈亮、王冲等弟兄姊妹一同去了密州春假福音营。虽然一路很辛苦，但一路的风景让我心情很舒畅。我知道那一定是神的带领，让我来到了基督徒大家庭，认识了很多弟兄姊妹。在短短的的几天的学习及弟兄姊妹的带领与见证下，我的心灵受到了极大地震撼，我第一次得知宇宙间有一位真爱我们的神，于是，我迫切的想要认识这位拥有大能的神！ 离开营地回到莱城以后，在基督徒弟兄的带领下，我来到了莱城华人教会。我开始慢慢地感受到，这个大家庭的每一位基督徒都是那么虔诚的在赞颂主耶稣，把一切的荣耀都归于天上的父。生活中他们是那么的热情与友善，他们对生活充满了信心，他们心中没有恐惧，在他们的心灵中，一定有一个信念在支撑引导着他们，那就是住在他们体内的圣灵！ 我开始试着向神祷告，求神保守我的女儿健康地来到世上，求神在我们一家每次的出行中保守我们的安全......我真真切切地感受到神在聆听我祷告，并用他的大能消除了我心中的恐惧，帮助我逃离每一次的危难。这让我从此更坚定了一生跟随主、让主来做我个人救主的信心！ 信主以后，我发现我的生活开始发生着微妙的变化，我真切地认识到自己是一个罪人，需要神的拯救。我开始认罪悔改，求神赦免我的罪，并且在以后的道路中能够带领我， 消除我对未来的恐惧。我愿意一生跟随主，按照神的旨意做事，不断学习，不断提高自己，也为基督大家庭贡献一份力量，帮助更多的人认识和相信主，来更好的侍奉主！ 简介：李肖艳，来自中国安徽，已婚，2015年3月13日来美莱克星顿陪同老公做访问学者。