聰明老人幸福十誡   “Ten taboos to happiness” for the intelligent aged persons.

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1 聰明老人幸福十誡   “Ten taboos to happiness” for the intelligent aged persons

2 一、不要再替成年子女操心，才不會碎碎唸。
Don’ t be concerned about adult children any more, otherwise,    cannot stop the annoying chatters.    

3 so to avoid incurring complaints.
二、不要再將成年子女當成未成年來「監護」，以免顧人怨 。 Don’t regard the adult children as of under age and serve as a guardian for them,      so to avoid incurring complaints.

4 三、不必事事都「非知道不可」，尊重已成年子女的隱私權、自主權。 No necessary to know everything,
   No necessary to know everything,    pay respect to the privacy and the right of decision-making of adult children.

5 四、不要再以兒、孫為生活重心，尋找自己的園地，才不致天天望穿秋水。
四、不要再以兒、孫為生活重心，尋找自己的園地，才不致天天望穿秋水。     Don’t regard children and grandchildren as a center of life,    look for personal social circles,    so to avoid trapping yourself in the dilemma of anxious expectation and disappointment daily. 

6 Raise a habit of writing, painting, exercising,
五、不要逢人就訴苦，寧可寫作、畫畫、練功、唱歌,以藝術、創作昇華情緒。      Raise a habit of writing, painting, exercising,      singing to sublime your mood by arts and creation rather than complain to people coming across

7 六、不要凡事抱怨，多欣賞、感謝別人為取悅你所做的努力。
More admiration, less complaints and appreciate what other people have done for pleasing you.

8 七、不要因孫輩和子女媳婿爭執衝突，這樣只會惡性循環，害了你的孫輩。
   Don’t involve in the dispute between grandchildren and adult children,    this act just causes adverse effects in a bad circle and hurt your grandchildren.

9 八、不要因病痛而唉唉叫，有病要治病，領了藥要服藥，治不好的要忍耐。
Don’t cry over sickness, just go to see a doctor and take the necessary medical pills as prescribed, and be patient if failed to cure   

10 九、不要疑心病太重，要感激還願意留在你身邊的人，免得最後連他也走了 ！
九、不要疑心病太重，要感激還願意留在你身邊的人，免得最後連他也走了 ！                                                                  Don’t be skeptical to others too much, be grateful to the person who left around you,      otherwise, he will go away from you too eventually

11 十、要多多親近神，有堅定的信仰，對未來抱著開心、樂觀的態度 。
   Participate in religious activities often, be stick to belief and take pleasant,     optimistic attitudes toward the future.