如何用英语安慰人？
1. Pull yourself together. 振作起来。 2. Keep your chin up. 别灰心。 3. Don‘t let it get you down. It will be over with soon. 不要让这件事击垮你。事情很快就会过去的。 4. Cheer up! things will work out for the best. 高兴点儿！事情会有好结果的。 5. Take heart - we‘ll find a way out. 振作起来，我们会有办法的。 6. Loosen up! It‘s not worth getting upset about. 放松点儿！不值得为这件事苦恼。 7. Hang in there. Things will get better. 坚持住，情况会好起来。 8. Keep smiling! things will calm down. 乐观一点，事情会平息下来的。
9. Things are never as bad as they seem. 事情往往不像看上去的那么糟。 10. Win a few, lose a few. That‘s life. 有得也有失，生活就是如此。 11. Let‘s look on the bright side. 我们来看看它好的一面。 12. Every cloud has a silver lining. 守得云开见月明。 13. When god closes a door, he opens a window. 上帝关上一扇门，会为我们打开一扇窗。 14. Tomorrow is another day. 有明天就有希望。 15. Stop carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders. 别太操心了。
英文里“重色轻友”怎么说？
我们通常说好朋友把ta的男/女朋友放在第一位，而忽略老朋友，这种人就会被大家称作“重色轻友”或者“有异性没人性”。英文里对这个情况的称呼更加形象生动，就一个词：hiberdating。
Hiberdating means dating in the winter months, or the situation that someone ignores all their other friends when they are dating a boyfriend/girlfriend. The second meaning is more popular. The word hiberdating is a blending of the word “hibernating” and “dating”， which means a person is in a state of inactivity(hibernating) among friends when dating someone。
Hiberdating指在冬季约会恋爱，或者指某人在谈恋爱期间忽略其他朋友的情况，也就是我们常说的“有异性没人性”。第二种用法更普遍一些。Hiberdating这个词是 hibernating(冬眠)和dating(约会)两个词的合成词，由此便可知它的意思是一个人在约会恋爱期间中断与朋友联络的状况。 For example: I haven't seen or heard from Jennifer since she started hiberdating Teddy four months ago。 自从4个月前詹妮弗跟泰德约会以来，我就一直没有过她的消息。